As a friend, relative or partner is well, of course we want to be a good listener as well. But sometimes we find it to be a listener is not enough. We would like to direct a person to goodness by our glasses, we finally menjudge that someone was wrong. Presumably it could reduce a person's ability to decide what is best for him, because that person could be doing something for the good of our branded (though he was so unhappy). Well certainly stress huh live in such conditions?Well, Vemale will tell you, why we should not quickly judge or someone menjudge. Before you trigger menjudge someone, you should consider several things below.1. Do We Know the whole fact?Anything that allows us to infer something from what we see and hear, perhaps just what you know it is still in a state of raw or incomplete. Maybe we just know the story of one or two people. But before we know clearly the real story, do not rush to conclusions. Save conclusion while in your own mind.2. No figure PerfectWhen someone did something really bad, know that the person has his own reasons. For example in a divorce or infidelity, sometimes we are in a position to be judging people are confused whether it was wrong or not. What is clear, we can only see him as someone who is not perfect and we are equally imperfect with them.3. Position YourselfImagine if we are in a disadvantageous position and the menjudge us without knowing our true reason. Definitely not fun is not it? We are also not possible to make a personal explanation to them one by one. Instead there make tired and raises new questions. So do not rush menjudge someone.4. What You See Is Not Forever TrueBack to point 1, that in fact we do not know the facts behind an incident. So what you see is not necessarily the truth. It could have been just an image. For example in a situation of infidelity. Penyelingkuh not necessarily the one who cheated and are not necessarily the right. Tengsin dong yes if you do not know anything and indiscriminate judge people, eh was misplaced.5. We're All DifferentWe can not menjudge something just because of personal opinion, because basically we are different and we only know what is best for each of our lives. For example in a career. Not because the civil service is guaranteed and that all people should be public servants. There are certain roles that we should use in this world and as long as the work is lawful and is our passion, it never hurts to keep occupied.6. Because We Do not LikeNot because we do not like, it means something is wrong. For example we do not like it when our female friend married to men who are not working. Not that it is wrong anyway, Ladies. We never know how the future of a person, is not it? Stay objective and think that they already know the risks and prepared to take responsibility when they've decided something.7. Restore YourselfJust think when you become them? Think about who you are in their lives? Try also think about whether you will take full responsibility if it turns out suggestions you have for them only made them regret? This is the reason why we should not be arbitrary to judge and let someone decide what is best for them.Everyone is essentially unique. so do not be offended or uncomfortable when someone thinking different from our own. Let's make this distinction means to learn about life.
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